Unwritten Rules To Know When In Thailand

In India, we've become so addicted to tapping our phones for everything, from chai to cab rides to big purchases, having cash on you almost feels archaic.

But Thailand has a way of humbling even the most digitally evolved traveller. From that tuk-tuk ride in Bangkok to shopping beachside in Phuket, the Land of Smiles still believes in cash is king. The White Lotus Season 3 may not have mentioned it explicitly but there are plenty of dos and don'ts that tourists should follow in the easy-going country of Thailand.

Every country has a list of social dos and don'ts that they hope tourists would kindly adhere to. It is basic courtesy, you know. Thailand, too, runs on an intricate rhythm of customs, courtesies, and unspoken rules that can instantly separate the respectful traveller from the obnoxious one.

From how you dress in temples (much like in India) to why raising your voice in public is deeply frowned upon, an entire social etiquette guidebook hides beneath the country's postcard- perfect beaches and full-moon parties.

Why following dos and don'ts in any country matters?

An ordinary traveller might wonder why should he bother with social rules, he is on a vacation, for f*******. As international travel becomes increasingly accessible, so does the responsibility of representing oneself well abroad. Thailand may be warm, welcoming and wildly fun but it also demands a little cultural sensitivity like any other country including India. Knowing the dos and don'ts isn't just about avoiding embarrassment, it's also about respect, and the kind of sophistication that makes you more than an ordinary tourist. In a lot of ways, it also enhances your experience through your interactions.

Here are all the unwritten rules to know while travelling to Thailand this year. First with Thailand's DOs.

Thailand Dos

• Do respect Thai culture

• Do dress respectfully when visiting temples and palaces. For both men and women, knees and shoulders should be covered when visiting temples. You are also expected to remove shoes at place of worship

• Do respect all Buddha shrines as they are considered holy and sacred in Thai culture

• Do take off your shoes when visiting someone's homes and sometimes, even shops. Look for the signage that mentions you to remove shoes outside the shops

• Do show respect to the national anthem or royal anthem. Stand still when you hear it in public, on train stations, bus stops and even in movie theatres. Take cues from others around you

• Do return a wai- a greeting commonly practised in Thailand which is a prayer-like gesture with a bow. Return wai especially to elders. Hugs are not uncommon among expats but most common way of greeting in Thailand usually avoids physical touch.

Thailand Dont's

• Don’t point to anything with your feet and don’t place your feet on the table while sitting

• Don't use your feet to pick up fallen money. If you accidentally drop some money, don’t step on it to stop it from blowing away. This would be insulting the King whose image is on Thai currency

• Don't touch monks

• Don't stand on the threshold of temples and sacred places as its believed to be place of guardian spirits

• Don't take Buddha images with you back home (although many vendors will try to sell them to you).

• Don't touch anyone's head, especially seniors and elderly as it is considered disrespectful

• Don't show display of public affections in Thailand. Limit it to holding hands.