Valentine’s Day arrives in February 2026: the Olympics of expectations. Even the emotionally unavailable have opinions on flowers and chocolates. If in a situationship, that awkward in-between hits different.
You're not single, but not taken. V-Day makes even the chillest dudes spiral. Suddenly, you're left to wonder if doing something nice would be kinder to your situationship, even though it doesn't feel romantic.
While traditional relationships come with presumed expectation of what February 14 might look like: romantic dinners, candles, chocolates, shaping how love is celebrated, whether romantic or platonic.
Contrary to that, situationships allow the dynamics to be footloose since no labels work and things are little more than hooking up with a random stranger. That's why for many people, not doing something nice on V-Day feels a little rude.
If you’re casually seeing someone, be cautious with Valentine’s gifts, as niceness can be misread, and the day is dangerously symbolic. Check your intent first, clarity beats confusion.
If a gift hints at commitment you’re not ready, skip it as unintended meaning can arise. Situationships are about your needs first, not stirring serious emotions. Be clear about boundaries to avoid complications.